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There aren’t many things that can be more of a “buzz kill” to a happy couple than talk of a prenuptial agreement. However, prenups are a smart and popular choice for many men who meet their future wives with our without a millionaire matchmaker. To protect yourself just in case your marriage fails, follow the advice below to keep your relationship in tact in the meantime.

Choose the right time to initiate the consideration.
When it comes to success in relationships, timing is everything. While there is no perfect time to bring up a controversial issue to your partner, some “times” are better than others. You should let her know that you would like to talk about a prenup before you propose marriage. If you bring it up after you are already engaged, she may feel resentful or even regret having said yes to marriage. You should initiate the prenup conversation as soon as you are seriously considering marriage.  Bring it up when you are feeling confident about her investment in the relationship. Of course, find a time when your partner isn’t stressed, is in a good mood, and isn’t, to the best of your knowledge, mad at you for anything!

Act like a prenup’s no big deal and that you are just following pre-marital protocol.
As our good millionaire matchmakers will tell you, there are plenty of topics a couple should discuss before they decide to tie the knot. At our matchmaking agency, Model Quality Introductions, we would recommend that you talk about everything from having children and how many, and how often, and where you will live, and how you’ll manage your assets. So get your girlfriend of that mindset. Let her know that you feel discussing a prenup is as commonplace as going to premarital counseling or revising your estate plan. Bonus if you could bring it up within pre-marital counseling! Don’t let her think that there is anything about her that makes you want a prenup. If she thinks you’d want a prenup with any woman you met-whether through a matchmaking agency or off the street-she will be less likely to take it personally.

Find a way to show her that you will be generous throughout the marriage and afterward.
To a woman, the idea that you want to withhold anything from her is unromantic and far from ideal. Understand that she is marrying you, in part, because she wants to feel taken care of. If you want to make her feel better, display your generosity before or soon after you initiate the prenup conversation. Yes, you can buy her gifts. Perhaps, you can even take her to your estate planner so that she knows she would not be left empty-handed if you were to pass away first. These ideas along with your own will make this process much easier and protect both of you ever after.

You see her across the room at the bar. She’s the girl who has turned every head in the room. She has grown men losing their wits as they line up attempting to buy her next drink. She can’t go anywhere without someone telling her how stunning she is. She’s the dream girl in the database of a millionaire matchmaker. Every woman wants to be her. Every guy wants to date her.

But should you marry her?

There’s good news and bad news about relationships with extremely attractive women. If you are dating “a 10” who has inner beauty to match her gorgeous looks, proposing marriage may initially seem like a no-brainer. The truth is, marrying “the total package” has pros and cons. They are as follows:

Pros: 

Your wife will always be the hottest woman you know.
If she’s more than just a pretty face, you will probably always be very sexually attracted to her—maybe even less likely to stray.

You will gain instant respect.
Because your wife is also the hottest woman everyone else knows, people will automatically assume you are either rich, or really something special.

You will feel like you won the prize.
Ridiculously good looking woman have ridiculously high standards.  They know what they want and are used to men giving it to them. They are accustomed to upscale dating. They expect to be treated extremely well. If you go through all the hoops your wife requires, hopefully she will love and appreciate you like crazy.

Cons: 

Your wife will want diamonds and jewels—on the regular.
Being beautiful doesn’t come cheap, and neither does marrying her! Expect to foot the bill for everything from manicures and pedicures, to Botox, to designer handbags, to the penthouse suite at luxury hotels around on travel. If you do not provide this, a dozen men will line up behind you and will offer it. Because your “10” may have relied more on her looks than her wits, she may have taken on a low-paying, or p/t job that has given her more debt to deal with. As a millionaire matchmaker we can find her, but do you want to keep a woman like this for the long term?

This beauty is younger and may still love to party.
Most men who get into relationships with “10s” through our matchmaking agency are dating women at least ten to twenty years younger. It is often the case that these beautiful, young women are social butterflies. You may have sought out a matchmaking service because you were over the bar scene, but if you are married to a “10”, bar-hopping, night clubs, galas, and heavy socializing may reenter your lifestyle. Are you prepared for this.

Your wife will attract a lot of unwanted attention.
There will be countless men with their eyes on your wife at any given time. This could lead to insecurity, jealously, drama, and fights. Hopefully, your wife will have dated her share of men before she marries you, so she won’t feel like she’s missing out on anyone. Even so, it can be difficult to know that everywhere you go there are men trying to steal your woman away! When you sit down with our matchmaking agency we will discuss the pros and cons of 8’s, 9’s, and 10’s.

There are many benefits to dating women younger than us. Signing up with a high end dating agency, like Model Quality Introductions will provide you an easy way to date pre-screened, amazing ladies 10-20 years your junior. A beautiful young women is more fun than buying an exotic red sports car! But in the long run, the car is definitely cheaper! Here are three reasons why this millionaire matchmaker says you should date younger women:

 
Younger women are some of the most beautiful women.
While we can introduce you to attractive women of all ages, most of our male clients opt to meet younger women, because they have youth and vitality and are simply and naturally stunning! Younger women have that gorgeous glow. Life is still fun and exciting, an adventure to them. They tend to be in great shape, and are still interested in paying attention to all the fashion details for themselves and their man. If you want a woman who is naturally beautiful, polished, well-put together, and up on all the latest fashion trends and sexy styles, date a younger woman.

 
Younger women have less baggage.
All women (and men) have their issues, and no relationship is perfect. But with younger women, you will have a chance to date someone who has less issues and has likely not been jaded by a series of men who have wronged her. Your relationship can progress more quickly  because you will find her less guarded and easier to be with. When you date through a millionaire matchmaker, you will meet younger women who who have not been divorced, can travel without child constraints, and can keep up with you in and out of the bedroom. Not saying that mature women cannot, and some are even better, but this article is devoted to the reasons why men should date younger. Of course there is training involved but It’s refreshing not having to hear about their divorce or divorces, all about their dead beat ex-husband and problematic children. By dating younger she will have less responsibilities and fewer constraints and more time to focus on you and the relationship.

 
Having kids is much easier with a younger woman.
Of course, raising children is a lot easier when at least one of the parents is younger and has the energy to devote to the little ones, but child bearing is a lot easier for younger women too. Despite the advances with modern day technologies like in-vitro fertilization, it is much easier and less expensive for women to get pregnant and have healthy babies when they are under age thirty-five. Infertility, as well as difficult pregnancies and birth defects, really take a toll on couples over 40. If you want to go the safe easy route dating a younger woman might be the way to go.

There was definitely a time in your life when a committed relationship was the last thing on your mind. Whether you were establishing your career going for the first million, or just playing the field, you cringed at the idea of attending weddings no less being in one. At that stage you wouldn’t even think about hiring a matchmaking service! But somewhere along the way, you went from being scared of the “m” word to envisioning the type of woman you would like to spend the rest of your life with.

After two decades of running the nation’s most upscale matchmaking agency, we here at Model Quality Introductions have learned how to tell if a man is ready for commitment. When relationship-oriented men come to a matchmaking service like ours, they have certain things in common.

1. 1. You feel like you have lived alone long enough.
   If you’ve lived alone for at least a few years, chances are you are ready to settle down for the first time or again. You are more likely to share your physical space, emotions, goals, and dreams with a partner after you’ve had some time to enjoy life on your own.
2. 2. You are no longer struggling financially.
   When you reach a point in your life where you have disposable income you can enjoy hiring experts to assist you, from a personal trainer to a millionaire matchmaker to improve the quality of your life.  When you don’t have to worry about your basic needs financially, you can not only be generous with the women you date but invest in your future happiness and outsource your love life to a matchmaking agency.
3. 3. You are over dating exes, even casually.
   Men who aren’t serious about meeting the type of woman they could marry hold on to exes. They won’t let go of one vine until they have another. It’s comfortable and easy to go back but keeps you from moving forward. They think they might as well have fun in the meantime. There is no need for them to hire a matchmaking agency, because they have all of their exes on speed dial! Space filler, yes. Woman of their dreams, no. When you are really ready for commitment, you understand that you can’t move forward by looking backward. If you have let go of all your exes, commitment is surely in your near future! Our matchmaking service makes this dream a reality.

As a discerning single gentleman, you may have considered membership with several professional dating services. At Model Quality Introductions, the nation’s top dating service, we want to let you in on a little secret: Women should not pay. We aren’t just referring to the tab on your first dinner date, but we are taking the strong stance that women should never pay for membership at top dating services. To put it simply, if dating agencies charge women, they attract a clientele of older, less attractive, heavier-set women who come with a lot of baggage. Often, these women are extremely corporate ladies who’ve had successful careers and failed relationships. At this stage, men are not seeing them out in public. Despite the fact that these women do not appeal to men who see a Millionaire Matchmaker, they themselves are very fussy. They believe they have the right to be selective not only because they are paying a dating service but because they have accomplished so much professionally. Here at Model Quality Introductions, we absolutely do not take on this type of client, most men would date 8’s, 9’s and 10’s that do not pay, than 4’s, 5’s and 6’s that will. On the other hand, beautiful model type single women get asked out a dozen times a day. There’s no way a gorgeous single model type woman is going to spend hundreds or thousands of dollars to join even the top dating services to meet any guy. This is why none of our competitors can offer beautiful women like we can. To put it simply, when dating agencies charge women for membership, they just can’t attract quality women. How many 8’s, 9’s, and 10’s, ages 25-45 are going to spend their entire savings to date single gentleman. None! At Model Quality Introductions, we are the only male-owned matchmaking agency in the nation that gets it. For twenty years, we’ve recruited breathtaking women and added them to our registry for free. If you are a discerning gentleman, do not pay to join any dating agencies that charge women. Make an investment into Model Quality Introductions and meet the women who are worth your hard earned money and time. The difference is extraordinary!

Let’s be honest: All dates are not created equal! Some are far better than others—not only because of who you are with, but because of what you are doing when you are with them. Some single rich men go above and beyond in planning dates. They do their research, take care of all the details, and bring a whole new meaning to upscale dating. Others just make a reservation at their go-to neighborhood restaurant. If you want to date beautiful women, don’t even think about the latter. Whether you meet a beautiful woman through a Millionaire matchmaker or in line at the supermarket, you’ve got to put in effort when planning a great date just to compete with all the other affluent single men chasing her. In order to make the best first impressions, consider the three best upscale dating ideas: Upscale Dating Idea # 1: Dinner You can’t go wrong with fine dining at a trendy restaurant that has a good reputation and rating. Look for a spot with a romantic view–whether of the water or of a city skyline. Choose a restaurant that is in close proximity to many other great date spots where you could go afterward for dessert or a drink. You’ll want to be in the “right” part of town. For example, downtown spots are usually considered hipper and trendier among New Yorkers. (But if your date lives uptown and she prefers somewhere convenient, choose the best restaurant for upscale dating in her neighborhood.) The ambiance is very important-the place should be quiet enough for conversation over dinner and drinks-but the restaurant must have excellent food too! Pick one that is dimly let over bright and obnoxious. Upscale Dating Idea # 2: Events When you are looking to impress a woman with more than just a meal, know the secret other upscale single men know: Unique events are always the way to go. If you really want to take her on some VIP dates, get admission to exclusive events and parties that attract a high-profile affluent singles and celebrity clientele. Make arrangements so you can cut the line and get one of the best tables in the house. If you aren’t into “the scene” you can try a cultural event like a gallery opening, Broadway play, or concert. If all else fails, you can always go to the Opera. Upscale Dating Idea # 3: Excursions If you want to do something really special and non-traditional that will set you apart from other affluent single men, you can plan an excursion type-date. Such dates are exciting, facilitate chemistry, and always make for a good story; however, they might not make the best first dates if you don’t know the woman well enough. (This is especially true if you are planning an activity that can give her a bit of performance anxiety, involves heights, or deserted areas!) Some ideas for excursions include taking her to an amusement park, on a yacht or cruise, in a jet, or up on a hot air balloon. You should definitely prepare some delicious snacks and meals, as it may be an all-day affair. You can always have a picnic too—with a little wine, cheese, and a comfy blanket! Show her a hidden romantic gem, and sparks will be flying.

Couple’s counselors everywhere continuously state that couples fight most about intimacy and money. Model-type women use a Millionaire Matchmaker to meet eligible men that they can rest assured will be an upscale pre-vetted man. However, meeting an affluent single man who is also a great intimate partner could feel a bit more like rolling the dice.  If you use professional dating services, the women you meet will know you are successful in life, so focus on showing them that you’ll click in the bedroom.  Want to date models and set the foundation for a great long term relationship?  Let us show the lady that you are the complete package. Model Dating Tip #1:  Be aware of the “rules”. Some say rules are meant to be broken, but if you are looking to date a model or any beautiful woman, keep the “rules” in mind. To begin with, if you want a serious relationship, do not get intimate on the first date. Although there are exceptions to any rule, sleeping together on the first date will not take you to the altar. It is generally advised that you don’t sleep together before the fifth date minimum. Many men who date models think it is acceptable to get intimate after three dates, but beautiful women make men they are seriously interested in wait longer. They want intimacy to be special with a guy really like. Many beautiful women want to wait until a man has made an emotional investment. This can take five dates or five months, it all depends on the woman, and the nature of the relationship. The number one rule you should follow when dating a model is to wait until the woman is comfortable. If you don’t pressure a woman, she will assume that you care about her, respect her, and see her as part of your future. If you wait too long, you run the risk of being placed in “friend zone”. Model Dating Tip #2: Understand what women want. When it comes to intimacy, the worst thing you can do is be pushy and make advances when a woman is uninterested. Read her body language and see if it is safe to make a move by testing the waters. See how affectionate she is in public. If she seems uncomfortable or unreceptive, slow down. When in doubt, ask her. Mirror her body language. Kiss her the way that she kisses you. Don’t be too aggressive, and if she seems to like whatever you are doing, do it more. If she doesn’t, stop. Model Dating Tip # 3: Prepare for the big night. When the time is finally right, you’ll want to do everything you can to make it special. Have a bottle of champagne chilled. Light candles. Use a hot tub if available.  If you want to date a model, your goal is to make the entire experience her most pleasurable. As Men’s Health suggests in “How to Be a Good Lover”: “A woman wants reassurance that the sexual experience you just shared was important to you. Hold her close, kiss her, and try some light facial massage as you gaze into her eyes.” Go get ‘em, Tiger! Best Regards, Craig Donaldson President Model Quality Introductions www.ModelQualityIntroductions.com president@modelqualityintroductions.com 310.860.9300

First impressions are everything for a man interested in exclusive dating, but as many affluent singlemenknow, you don’t win a woman over on the first date alone. Beautiful women who are used to dating millionaires have been wined and dined. As any Millionaire matchmaker would tell you, you’ll have to do more than just show her a good time if you want to stand out from all the other single rich men chasing her, don’t make the mistake of relaxing your efforts after a great first date. Just because she likes you, doesn’t mean you’ve won her over. If you really want to grab her heart, you have to use your masculine energy to make her feel like a woman—ideally the only woman you have eyes for! Keep in mind a woman who is interested in marrying a millionaire, wants to date successful masculine alpha males who show that they can protect her. To date single models, use your masculine energy to lead, provide, and cherish her feelings. Follow these tips by our upscale matchmaker: Millionaire Dating Tip #1: Ask her out on dates in advance. When a woman is trying to decide if a guy is worthy of exclusive dating, she is watching his every move. Women naturally tend to read into behaviors and relationship dynamics more than men; one thing that is always important to them is whether a man makes them feel special. If a date is planned at the last minute regardless if it is the best high end datingexperience a woman can imagine the guy gets a strike in her mind. She thinks that if a guy wants to be with her, he will ask her out in advance to ensure the date.  It doesn’t matter if he is a busy single executive or millionaire datingwith a ton of time on his hands, if he can’t take the lead and ask her out ahead of time, a woman loses respect. It shows a disregard toward her feelings if you make last minute plans that require little effort. She will doubt how serious you are about her and may even label you as a player. Be smart, and be a man with a plan! Millionaire Dating Tip #2:  Lead the relationship with good communication.   If you are calling, emailing, and texting a woman regularly, it becomes apparent to her that she is a priority to you. A woman knows that if a “real man” is interested, he will make that clear to her.  She knows that there are many men who prefer the convenience of texting, but that if a man has strong feelings, he’ll want to hear a woman’s voice. Show her that you look forward to contact with her. Find every opportunity to respond to her–no matter how busy you may be. If you want exclusive dating, never fail to acknowledge holidays, because they are important to women. If it is a major holiday, and you aren’t with her, you should be calling and sending cards and gifts. Provide her with a sense of security about the relationship by showing that you care. Millionaire Dating Tip #3:  Show her that you want more than sex.   If you’ve been out for a lot of dinner and drinks, switch it up and take her out for lunch in the middle of the day. A woman doesn’t want to feel like the guy she is dating only wants to see her when it is dark out. If you are considering her for exclusive dating, spend time getting to know her in a different context Its silly oversight, but a lot of single rich men don’t think the simple pleasures provide a path to a woman’s heart. They think it is all about upscale dating. It’s NOT! Walk with her in the park, hold her hand in the movie theater, and let her realize how much she likes you when you are just doing simple things. Also, when you compliment her, don’t comment on her body. You can compliment her appearance, but make sure you also tell her you admire her intelligence or enjoy her sense of humor.         Millionaire Dating Tip #4:  Make her feel special when you introduce her to your friends. Nearly all men want their friends to approve of the girl that they are dating, but some make the mistake of making the introduction too soon. If you bring a woman to meet your crew on a first or second date, she won’t feel special. She’ll get the idea that you always date beautiful women and like to show them off to your friends right away. If you wait until she feels confident that you are considering her for the long term, she’ll feel like you want to integrate her into your life. If it becomes clear that you have been talking positively about her to your friends, she will feel flattered. A successful introduction to your friends will make a woman feel you are on the path toward exclusive dating and more.   Millionaire Dating Tip # 5: Go after what you want   A masculine man is aggressive and laser focused on his goal. As a single executive looking for millionaire matchmaking, you know how to get what you want in the workplace. Now, go for the girl! Don’t give her the idea that you don’t want something serious by rushing into sex too soon. But if exclusive datingis what you are after, you will want to sleep with her as soon as she is comfortable. When the time is right, you must initiate sex. Beautiful women know that all guys want to have sex with a woman they are attracted to. If you don’t initiate, she will think you are just platonically interested. You are the man. Make your move!

Having a successful relationship doesn’t happen automatically, even if you meet the person who is your perfect match. We all have past experiences and future expectations. Women don’t expect that each date will be more elaborate than the prior one until you are whisking them away to a private island. Women consistently express that it is the little things that keep them attracted and excited to see a man. They appreciate the man who opens their car door, remembers special occasions, and surprises them with flowers when they don’t expect it. Relationships tend to start to suffer when we take our women for granted. If after a few months, you think your relationship is on cruise control, it is time to remind her how special she is to you and treat her like the catch she is. Plan a special date. Take a little getaway, do something spontaneous like leaving a little note. All of these things will help to keep the butterflies and excitement there.  It’s also important to make time to learn a bit about her interests. For example if she likes dancing and you are the world’s worst dancer, she will still adore you for making the effort. Go a little out of your comfort zone and you will reap the rewards.